i feel like bakugou stans don’t realize that their actions harm abuse survivors. they spend all their time trying to say bakugou isn’t abusive so they can feel okay liking him and in the process invalidate people who were abused the way bakugou abused izuku. what bakugou stans say by doing this is that their abuse isn’t real and they imagined it or are overstating it which is already what we often think so it just ingraines that further and makes us really think we made our abuse up
hh i’m so sorry you have to deal with that that’s never any fun like
its really personal for me too cause for the better part of elementary school i was in a position like izuku: i was entirely friendless and bullied, and i didn’t even have the benefit of knowing why, all i knew was i was disliked by everyone around me and my teachers did nothing about the bullying, and if i hadn’t moved schools i know i would have been even worse off then i already am.
Cheloneuniverse 