no, but, more serious hot take. daken is a black widow trope. he is manipulative, he does use coercion, and consent with him is always at best questionable and at worst nonexistent. this is the “seductive spy”. he’s seen as a larger threat than most black widows because he’s a man, and that’s fine. i deeply believe there are men who find the black widow trope on women just as distasteful. for many people anything less than perfectly crystal consent will always, always be violence. and you need to be respectful of that.