I never understood trying to make tony a father figure anyways for peter. He doesn’t need one he has a gaurdian, aunt May, and tony is a big ass weirdo. Cap saying “Brooklyn” to Peter is more fatherly than all of Tony’s behavior
Tony is every immature, irresponsible white asshole man in his forties who never had his privilege checked and so never actually grew up. Also, how can he be anyone’s father figure when he has worse daddy issues than anyone in the Marvel Universe?