tinierpurplefishes:

buffyconfessions:

Why is it Willow is told off for violating Tara’s mind with magic but Xander never gets demonized for subjecting the whole of the female population to control by magic? Yeah that part was an accident – but he meant to violate Cordelia’s right to her own mind, body and soul.

Xander gets away with all kinds of shit. He’s pretty commonly saying or doing sexist/misogynistic stuff, and the only reason he didn’t have more racist bits is because the show was so heavily whitewashed. He gets called on basically none of it

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